The trouble with love & Boys

[Macy gurzynski]

The trouble with love & boys for me is, in my last relationship, I was always getting accused of upsetting my boyfriend. Also, he would try to tell me that I like to make him mad. This is NOT true. If a boy/man really loves you, wouldn't he bemore sensitive to how you feel when he says things like this? I know it bothered me a lot. I don't understand. But don't get me wrong, all boys/men are not like this. Some are very polite, caring and sensitive. Like my grandfather for instance; He and my grandmother have been married for at least 48 years. He has never cheated on her or betrayed her. He has loved her from the day they met. Why can't all men be like this? It's not that my last relationship was horrible. It was going perfect for the first 3 and a half months but the next month and a half just went "high speed" downhill. Neither of us know why but, when it started to go downhill I noticed when we argued, each time we argued it would escalate more than the last argument and I was always the one getting blamed. I'm not one to point fingers. I can and do, notice my own mistakes and take full responsibility for them. I own up to them all the time but, he still would point his finger at me. Why is this you ask? I don't know. If anyone would like to share opinions, please comment below. Thanks.